The Real Doulas of Toronto!!!

As a doula I've spent almost 10yrs meeting and working with amazing women in the birthing industry.  No two of us are alike, except perhaps for our passion for supporting mothers, babies and their families.  So I thought wouldn't it be great to highlight for the people of the Greater Toronto Area and beyond some of the utterly fabulous women I work with on a regular basis.

I've set it up like an interview with their responses below.  The first doula I'd like you to meet is Carrie Barr.  Not only is she an amazing mom but an incredible birth and postpartum doula.  She would definitely be on my team should I ever become pregnant again....which I'm totally not....ever....and I mean ever....Carrie is one of our Durham Doulas.  So if you are pregnant or a new mum in the Durham Region, you need look no further than Carrie!

So without further delay, here is Carrie Barr!!!

1.  What brought you to become a doula?

I was fascinated by people's birth stories and horrified at the number of people coming home thinking they had an "emergency" section for blah, blah, blah reasons and would never have a baby normally.

2.  How do you think postpartum and birth doulas benefit parents?
Birth doulas help empower a couple for the birth experience they want, doulas reduce interventions and increase chances of successful breastfeeding.

Postpartum doulas help integrate the new family member into the house, provide breastfeeding support, create a longer breastfeeding relationship, provide sleep support and help design a postpartum plan for the family.

3.  Besides Birth support, what other related services are you passionate about?

Placenta encapsulation, waterbirth and every woman having access to support.
4.  Would say it is still important to have a doula with Midwifery care?
Absolutely, while midwives are amazing support they do not have training in comfort measures like doulas do and they have tons of charting to do which occupies their time.  Doulas and midwives make an amazing birth team.
5.  If you attend births in hospitals which is your favourite and why?

My favourite is Port Perry because it's small, quiet, and the staff have time to be attentive, they LOVE having doulas, the birthing suites are on the main floor with it's own entrance and the rooms overlook a private garden so women have a beautiful private view while labouring.  And they can walk in the garden!! No need for the blinds to be closed and the sunshine shut out!

6.  One of the biggest concerns is that doulas will replace the partner, how do you ensure that this is not the case?

I always tell clients that I am there to support both of them and that I always offer to show the partner what the client needs so that he/she has the opportunity to be involved on whatever level they are comfortable with.

7.  What questions do you feel are important to ask a birth and or a postpartum doula?
Experience, references, bias's, back up

8.  If you could put together the perfect support service package what would you choose?
All my services! A tub rental for a homebirth in which I was the birth doula, who then encapsulated her placenta and do 6 weeks 5 nights a week of pp support

9.  How do you juggle family and doula work?
I try to focus on services that allow me to be at home like tub rentals and encapsulation, I do pp nights so I am here when my family is awake, limit births to 2 a month and try not to take any when I have pp booked.
10.  How do you answer the question "You're a Do-What?"I provide professional support to pregnant and labouring women and sleep and breastfeeding support to families at home after the baby has been born!